Mistress Talia: a sadistic domme

I've been visiting a lot of other lady's blogs over the last few days while organizing my own, seeing what's out there, finding sites to recommend to my readers, visiting and commenting on their blogs and such. In the course of my travels, I spent some time on the blog of Ms. Slide: Elite London Mistress.

I have very long, convoluted fantasies. I often start a fantasy one night, and continue the story another night, and on and on. They're sort of like serial fantasies.

The movie was just incredibly stupid (though I have to credit it for having some eye candy), but I remember really enjoying the book.

Yesterday, I was discussing one particularly hot scene from that book with a caller: the wrestling scene between Elliott and the other slave. I found that pretty hot.

Usually, when someone is an anal virgin, it's best to introduce them gradually so as to avoid traumatizing them and turning them off the experience entirely. One uses lots of lube, ramps up gradually starting with a very small butt plug or a single finger, and proceeds slowly with patience in order to introduce them to anal sex in a way that ends up enjoyable for them even on a first time.

Of course, if it doesn't matter if the virgin is ever going to like anal sex, if you intend just to use this person's ass for your own pleasure regardless of theirs, if you actually prefer that it be painful for them, one doesn't need to proceed with quite so much care.

Anyone who has played with nipple clamps knows that while they hurt some going on, the real pain is during that rush of blood returning to the area once the clamp is removed.

A zipper magnifies that effect by allowing the domme to apply many clamps and rip them all off at once. The effect of using a zipper is not additive, the pain is exponentially more as more clamps are added.

This is a very cool story told to me by a buddy of mine who is a truck driver. It seems my buddy has a major foot fetish. I don't know why he confessed it to me as he has never managed to confess it to his wife!

I've read a lot of her writing and must say I like Mistress Chianti.

Her blog has a lot of amusing pictures of her submissives in various predicaments (crossdressed, play piercing, and puppy roleplay).

Fantasies change over time, but this one is an old favorite that keeps coming back. It's a fantasy of inflicting corporal punishment on one slave while a second services me sexually.

Let me explain where this comes from. As a sadist, I get seriously aroused from inflicting pain. But most of the activities that cause pain require full attention in order to do them safely, so I can't let myself "go" sexually.

If you don't know what I'm referring to, it's a series of books by Laura Antoniou.

Laura is an extremely intelligent, literate chick that writes incredibly hot stories about characters that seem like real people. I spent about a week rereading the first three books recently and was just climbing the walls all week! Laura is a massive turn-on for me and I recommend her highly.

You can increase the perceived heat of hot wax using ice to contrast with, which makes the wax seem much hotter; this is the technique called "Fire and Ice."

A few weeks ago, I met "Puppy" at a local hotel room and tried a twist on the "Fire and Ice" technique.

 

Lately, I've been thinking about the forced bisexuality fantasy that so many submissives have.

For a long time, I assumed that this fantasy was about one particular thing, that some guys had a deep curiosity about bisexuality, but were too homophobic to let themselves express it. Having a woman "make" them do it made the whole thing seem heterosexual to them; they wouldn't have to wonder about their orientation because a domme "made" them do it.