Mistress Talia: a sadistic domme

I've noticed when talking to many of you that while you like the discussions of fetishes, scene reports, and fantasies, you also like just getting to know myself and Mistress Talia, learning about us, how we live, what we do, our hobbies and interests.

I haven't blogged about Strippers on Your Desktop in a while. I feel a tad strange blogging about it too often, as it obviously has nothing to do with femdom phonesex or even BDSM (as if our recipe posts do!)

Honestly, it's just the most compelling thing I've ever seen. Sometimes, I have to shut it down in order to get work done! And a new FREE chick every day! It's easy to collect a whole bunch of these strippers.

Morgane did this lovely "Lady in Red" set for Valentine's Day:

Public Sex: The Culture of Radical Sex by Pat Califia^* is highly recommended.

Yes, it's another title by Califia. Califia was a pioneer of sex-positive feminism, and has been angrily opposing the anti-porn feminazis since the 70s. We highly admire Califia's body of work, the thoughtful essays, amazingly hot erotica and practically useful manuals.

This particular book is intended to stimulate your brain, not your genitals. It absolutely will make you think. Regardless of whether you are sexually conservative or liberal, this book will challenge many of your own ideas about sexuality.

Like everyone else out there, I get tons of stuff forwarded from friends, jokes, causes, "thoughtful" stuff, whatever.

And like most of you, 99% of what I get I've seen a thousand times before.

But this racey joke was a new one on me and cracked me up.

Enjoy!

While I have a huge collection of various nipple clips, nipple clamps, clothespins, binder clips and such for a wide variety of sensations, my absolute flat-out favorite type of clamp are Japanese clover clamps.

The width of the area they pinch with their rubber tips is so much wider than most clamps, that the effect of blood rushing back into the clamped area is much more intense than on most clips.

As the days stretched into weeks, Suzanne became an expert at licking Chris. To begin with, she'd been hesitant, slightly shocked and disgusted at being forced to eat pussy, but over time, she had learned.

She was still very confused about Chris. She did not wish to set "him" off by the accusation of being female again, so continued to think of "him" as male, even while confronted daily, and sometimes several times a day, with the inconvertible evidence that he was not.

Besides, it was easier to think of Chris as male. No female behaved as he did, taking what he wanted from her again and again. In these past weeks, she had learned things she'd have never even dreamt of just a few shorts weeks ago...

This book was written by Samois, a lesbian feminist BDSM group based in San Francisco from 1978 to 1983.

The book consists of short stories (porn) and essays (political) from a time when a section of the feminist movement decided the way to earn equality for women was to beat up leatherdykes.

Of the five sponsors Talia chose for her Women in Bondage blog, I am most fond of Bondage Orgasms.

This site has just incredibly hot lesbian BDSM. I mean it makes my cunt just dripping wet! Here's some videos (WMV format, requires Windows Media Player)...

This so cracked me up.

Again, I am fortunate enough to have been given permission to repost a scene report that I originally found on Usenet, this time on soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm.femdom

I found this post to be poignant and just utterly beautiful.

There's two basic types of piercing, play-piercing during a scene and permanent piercing. Today, I'm going to discuss play piercing.

Piercing is one of those things that once weirded me out. When I first realized people did this, I was kind of shocked. And then, over time, I became obsessed with it.